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Use Short-Term Goals to Rocket Your Success

Use Short-Term Goals to Rocket Your Success

“When you run naked in the snow, it automatically means you are running barefoot.”  She kept emphasizing this point as if I disagreed with her.  “Everyone is talking about the benefits of barefoot running for the development of better endurance.”  I kept wondering what this had to do with being naked. Similarly, you may be...
The Power of Harnessing Your Thoughts

The Power of Harnessing Your Thoughts

In my article debunking the Law of Attraction teachings, I showed you that quantum physics in no way suggests that our thoughts control the manifestation of our world through the known laws of physics or quantum mechanics. That doesn’t mean our thoughts cannot change the world, it just means that there is no scientific proof...
The Anti-Procrastination Formula

The Anti-Procrastination Formula

Why is it that we procrastinate on simple tasks like cleaning up the house or paying a few bills? In most cases, procrastination is at its worst when a task will require a longer period of effort before the payoff of a feeling of completion is reached. If you could sit down and pay a...
WAKE UP EARLY!

WAKE UP EARLY!

A woman consulted me this week about how to get herself to actually get out of bed when her alarm goes off in the mornings. She has some pretty compelling reasons to get out of bed and get working on her goals, but day after day she gets up, turns off the alarm and goes...
Cool People Don’t Try Hard

Cool People Don’t Try Hard

Have you ever noticed that it’s not really very “cool” to try hard? It starts sometime shortly before junior high, when the socially savvy kids start to realize that much of the control the adult authority figures insist on maintaining is an illusion dependent on their cooperation. They want to show that they have this...
Trying vs. Doing

Trying vs. Doing

People consult me about how to change things in their lives.  I give them direct instructions on what to do next and they say, “I’ll try that.”  That’s when I ask them to participate in a little experiment with me. I drop a pen on the floor in front of them and ask them to...
The Simple Equation For Getting What You Want

The Simple Equation For Getting What You Want

You may have heard it said that the key to a life of miracles is to invest your thoughts much less in your fears than in your hopes and plans for success. It’s a profoundly true and very powerful statement. But how the heck do you actually do it?  Flowery thoughts are useless unless you...
Your "Fool" Potential

Your “Fool” Potential

Unlike its highly regarded cousin, “full potential,” It doesn’t take much to live up to your fool potential.  All you have to do is show up and whine about how your life is boring.  You see, the key to living a truly foolfilling life is wishing things were different all the time and never doing...
Unlock Your Mind's Potential

Unlock Your Mind’s Potential

Your mind came with features preloaded, many of which you don’t even know about.  For example, did you know you can read about as fast as normal when I scramble the letters in words you are familiar with? Aoccdrnig to rscheearch, it dseno’t raelly mtaetr iwihch oerdr I wirght ltteres.  taht is bcuseae yuor azanmig...
Forgetting Is Worse Than Procrastination

Forgetting Is Worse Than Procrastination

Procrastination is not the worst enemy when it comes to personal development and building the life of your dreams. Rather, forgetting, in its simplest form is your worst enemy...
Making Your Own Luck: The Ultimate Life Upgrade

Making Your Own Luck: The Ultimate Life Upgrade

You may be familiar with the concept of creating your own luck.  The idea is that in most situations, the statistical chances of good things happening are greatly improved by frequently putting yourself in situations that could yield a positive outcome. A real-life example might look something like this: a guy who’s determined to find...
Only A Few Things Truly Matter In Life

Only A Few Things Truly Matter In Life

There are only a few things that truly matter in life.  Are you pursuing them with all your strength?  If so, do you feel that you have been succeeding? If not, consider a couple of questions that may shift your perspective and help you to translate your efforts into a more fulfilling and power-filled life...